Hold Strong Young Man-God is with you! Put your pain and heartache before him (pray) and ask him to take it from you. Children can not blame themselves for adult behaviors. I am an adoptive mother and I want the best for my son. I'm watching this to learn so that I can help him cope with whatever feelings of loss that he may experience in the future. He is just seven now. Still, I know that God gave me my son and that's what I told him too. His biological mother wanted me to raise him. Like you, it wasn't for lack of love but his biological mother was not in a position to care for him. Like your biological mother, my son's bio Mom didn't want him to be raised by her family. We can't turn back the hands of time. I think it might help to surround yourself with as much support as possible, turn away negative influences, keep sharing if it helps but most of all tap into your faith, give more time to focus on God and his plan for your life. Thanks for sharing!
You were never a mistake. Your birth mother will always love you. Your adoptive parents will always love you. You have a purpose for being here, rather you feel it or you don’t. You have a purpose. Nobody should ever feel that they were a “mistake”. We did ask to be here, we were made to be here. Sometimes we go through things, and we have no reason or explanation for it. It’s just something God had put us through so we can overcome it. Turn it into something positive, and good. Take the time you have now, to heal, spend time with your family, and cherish the time you are given now. Keep your head up, you’ve already come so far.
God is the realest one out there, his the one that will never abandon you, is always with you from birth until you die, always stay by your side when in hardship, he was the one that has given us everything without expecting anything in return.. Return to him for thats truly where our hearts will find peace.
Ill honestly say before these videos about your adoption journey I was straight up annoyed by you for years .... like how you appeared to treat women etc. But this was 100% genuine and made you so human and relatable, you were honest about all these things that many ppl go through for various reasons. Appreciated. You will be alright this will be a new chapter in your life and with your mother a chance for healing.
You are not a mistake. You have people who ❤️ love you. You need to take a stand and fight for what you want in life. We are not given a silver spoon or the perfect family so you adapt and go on. I lost my mother when I was two. My Dad physically and sexually abused me. I went into foster care and later was adopted at the age of 14. I joined the military and started my own family. Things to day are not great. I suffer from PTSD and on meds but I am still here. Never give up.
Nothing or no one is a mistake!! You are here for a reason, or you wouldn't be. None of this is your fault. Keep growing, living seeking the Most High God your heavenly father. He will fill any voids you have. He's the parent of all parents. Its good you realize you are loved by both sides of your family. The MOST HIGH God loves you EVEN more than any earthly person. Jeremiah 29:11-14 please read that scripture!!!!Matthew 6:33 as well( &whole chapter as well.)Thanks for sharing. So many tears right now. Just stumbled across your page. You also remind me so much of my brother who passed 1 ago. EVERYONE IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS, HANG IN THERE!!!!!!!
I usually don't comment on videos I watch but I had to comment. I am praying that God give you peace in your soul. Please know that God had a purpose for you. You went through so someone could hear your story and not feel like they are alone. What we go through in life good or bad is not for us but for the next person in a similar situation.
Well God breathed life into you when you were formed in your mothers womb. God makes no mistakes and his timing is perfect. Trust that everything you're feeling and going through is going to be worth it one day, you'll look back and know that it helped mould you into the man you are destined to become. The Journey is just as important as the destination x
Honey, stop believing the lies you are sometimes telling yourself. And instead know that you are here for a good reason. You deserve to be on earth and you are a sun :). Basically I have only seen now the three videos from your adoption story so I have just discovered you, but man you made me cry... So pure, so lovely. And since you are making funny videos it makes me think to what we say about clowns, that deep down they have lots of sadness. I know. This is amazing what you are genuinely sharing and who you become. Thanks. Oh and you can heal! :)<3<3<3
I'm going to adopt my niece. REMEMBER THIS YOUNG MAN YOU ARE AND NEVER BE A MISTAKE. YOU SAVED ME BELIEVE THAT. I WAS ADOPTED BUT I WAS " ABUSED... " sexually😭😭😭😭😭 suicide was on my mind but I came your channel. I was planning my death that day. Hugs go to you from me
Wen your father tries to touch u is also the worst thing tht can ever hppn so I get it trying to look for love Nd hurt others bc one man hav ruined your life I live with thys everyday the hate I hav for him isn’t rte but I love God Nd ik he wouldn’t want tht but it’s hard.
I'm a birth mother and I'm just so happy that my son will always be able to contact me because it's an open adoption. I get to see him every 2 months and over the years I can answer whatever questions he has because hes only 1 call away. And I'll always be able to be there for him. I cant even imagine the pain that your mom has gone through all these years. 😢 Everyone needs to realize how SELFLESS we birthmothers are. It's disgusting that people actually think it was easy for us to do.
Stop knocking yourself down for decisions adults made in their lives ( birth mom, aunt etc..) Your a blessing to your adopted parents. Sounds like they really wanted a baby & God blessed them with you. Now your a blessing to the world & the family you will procreate. Don't ever think about taking yourself out of this world, I truly feel that God has so many more Wonderful things in-store for you. God bless you.
I was adopted as well and I can feel your pain and the reason I was adopted was because my mom had fool child protection of me but she was a drug addict and my father was in a gang but sadly my mom is dead now she I around 37 years of age and like I said my father was in a gang and mind you I was 4 and only remember seeing him once in my life and I felt a connection with you and to let you know I was adopted at 5 years of age and I am know 11 years of age so I feel you on a personal level if life I have felt the same ways so many time to the point that if I where to cry I would tell myself I don’t deserve to be on this planet and I would try to commit suicid but I am a lot better now
No one is a mistake. Your life has purpose. You were a blessing for your adoptive family that was God's plan. He touched your mom's heart to give the best life she could by giving you to someone that could give you all that you deserved. Im sure all the pain you feel she felt. You are a blessing
i want to say that watching this,i was tearing up because you got the chance to meet your birth mother and there was no resentment between you and your mom.What hurts is watching you going through all this pain.I want you to know that you were not a mistake you were a blessing from god and your mom needed help.I don't want you to think that you were a mistake.So now you have been blessed with your mom and now it's time to bond with her.
The world needs more people like you. Your genuine. God bless you. Thanks for sharing your true self. I just came across your video about your adoption. I'm happy I watched. I love your words. You say everything so right. I cried my eyes out with these adoption videos.
GOD LOVES YOU & YOU ARE STRONG !!!
“Christ’s love is greater than anyone can ever know, but I pray that you will be able to know that love. Then you can be filled with everything God has for you.”Ephesians 3:19 ERVhttp://bible.com/406/eph.3.19.erv
I’m so proud of you & your an inspiration to others. Satan is your only enemy! Your life isn’t a mistake & you deserve to keep enjoying always ! Keep fighting the good fight. I’m praying for you, let God show you the way & consider Him , He loves you more than anyone. God is so proud of you✨✨💗⭐️🌸
you turned out amazing .. i was half adopted my name was changed and i never new who my real father tell i was 15 years old cus i was the only one with green eyes while everyone had blue eyes i found that i was half adopted when i turned 15 cus i was becoming a rebal do to not knowing anything and YOU R NOT A MASTACE your ment to be on this world for reasons that only god knows you are doing amazing keep that head up and keep fighting threw your thoughts it will heal now that your birth mother and you are comunicating
You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God! You were not a mistake when he formed you in your mother’s womb!! I’m praying for you! You will make it! Don’t bury the pain, I’m proud of you for confronting it!! This to shall pass and you will continue to help others who have been through what you went through! God says in his word he will never leave you or forsake you! Thank you for sharing and being courageous! You got this!
You know, for you to come to this world, your mother or father must have had the desire. It's not your fault.
Maybe she was worried about raising a child. Maybe she did not feel capable enough.
You know people sometimes would like to have children, but they are afraid of not having enough money, enough education, to not be smart enough for children. You really don't know what's going on in their mind.
But I understand your feelings. I mean 50%. When I was 18, I met my dad and he told me about his concerns. As a child, I just thought he did not love me, I was not pretty or valuable enough.
He was ashamed to still be poor. I'm older now, but my earlier thoughts are still the same.
You shouldn't blame yourself. Your biological family was made stronger and you may have been a bonding factor for them. I feel like in this situation you gained two loving families. That is more than a blessing. And if you weren't supposed to be here God wouldn't allow you be here. You still have a mission and your life has so much value.
Never think u is a mistake I am not adopted but I so feel like I am in a way but everyone has a path to cross ur here for a reason might not be something u understand now but later u will ur name alone is a powerful name so bro u have a reason just have faith God will show u I'm going through depression and feelings of a mistake but I tell myself I'm here for a purpose and I'm love myself and life I wish the best for u and u r girl and family hold strong I will pray for u
As a mom the thought of any of my children or anyone else's child thinking that they could ever be the cause of anything other than pure joy is heartbreaking. Your family got to experience a love that's beyond any love you can imagine. To have a child smile up at you with loving eyes is what heaven on Earth feels like. You are like all children a miracle.
You are such a beautiful young man, may God bless you. You are helping me to better understand my sons feeling because his father is not in his life. Thank you for opening my eyes, you have a beautiful life to live, live it!
If that gap can't be close then what is there to do, if the amount of work we put in is useless then why do we even try, if the pain is right there why do we say goodbye instead of hello, the amount of tears we cry will always say more than words can, the pain we hide with a smile, the smile doesn't always tell you how we feel, we could be broken without anyone seeing ~A
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
my brother lean not unto your own understanding but the Lords. Always, always acknowledge him in all of your ways and he will surely bring everything that he wants for you to fruition. As long as you have breathe my brotha, you have purpose!!! God bless you, my brother. xxx
You not a mistake. Period that's it ur gonna be a great father and a great husband one day to ur wife. Stay positive. I know this brought up alot of stuff but u will get through it not saying it's gonna be easy but u will.
Bro I unsubscribed from you a while ago cause all the videos with the girls an sexual stuff an all was getting to much, but watching this man your now fully equipped to becoming the man that you want to be, please bro dont think your a mistake or a burden, your changing lives you got such a platform to reach out to so many people, God made you bro and God does not make mistakes man please dont think like this, your a very good guy man and so many people support you. Keep your head up bro things are just going to get better from here man, and just do one thing, forget about the fame money etc. spend as much time as you can with your family, both families as thats one thing that money will never be able to buy. Your a legend bro, i also re subscribed. I dont know if you have already or not but please give yourself to Jesus too because just as much as your mother he wants to meet you to. x Love you Brother
You had no control over what happened or the choices that adults made.. You should always keep your head high and look at what and who you are as a person even though you go through all these emotions and pain.
You are not at fault nor guilty
Like I said it was all out of your control.
Just keep on your path and you will one day wake to see a brighter path ahead.
Having kids is hard no matter the circumstances and you didn’t do anything to cause pain in anyone’s life. You are here for a purpose. So many babies go unwanted and you were loved and wanted by many and that is a blessing. Even if no person wanted you, God wanted you and loved you and knew you before he picked your parents. Keep your head up
I'm so proud of you I'm glad you didn't share all the letter I appreciate your courage it takes a great man of heart and mind to be so honest about something that is so hard you are now in my🙏🏿 God has you here for a reason I thank you for Sharing your story I'm sending you 💛💛💛💛 from Cincinnati ohio 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
mystic, we all love you. you bring so much joy to everyone. don’t ever think you’re a mistake, everyone on this channel all 4.1 million of us love you endlessly. keep ur head up, stay strong. you’re very loved 💓😭
As a child it's never your fault.
As an adult we are often put in situations that we have to make that's for the better for everyone. At times that may be one of the biggest choice for life for both parties.
You are here for a reason and purpose.
Your testimony now may help some one else.
I can go on for days.
I often tell my Family/Friends/Soldiers to take care of you because no one can do it better than you.
Please note that if you need to speak to someone to please do so because keeping it buried will continue grow inside you and mold you into someone you are not.
STAY BLESSED AND HUMBLED
Mystic, you being "Here" was Always meant to be but your Feelings of something missing is that connection that was taken away from you, Not because of "Anything" you did by just being you. If you had stayed in an enveroment that was unstable you may not have turned in to a Beckon that you are... just deal with your feelings and know that "You" are Loved.
Stay strong, God turned it around for your good. He elevated you to be where you are now. You are a great person, full of courage and wisdom. It can't be easy, but God has compensated you. This process won't break you but will strengthen you into the man that God destined for you to be. Stay strong, you are blessed! ♥️♥️♥️
Young man you are Gods child, he knows you before you were born, he loves you with an abundance of love, Reach out to him and tell him how you feel, ask him to come in your heart and clean all the sad things of the past, ask him to clense you and make you whole
I’m a birth mother ..
And watching you made me cry I’m still crying..
I’ve kept a journal for years to my son for him when he is older.. I’ll tell you as a birth mother I’m terrified that the decision I made out of pure love will end up destroying us both.
I’ll say this in my situation.. it wasn’t suppose to end up this way.. and I grieve every single day... I’m praying for you and your family.
Not your fault baby. You were not a mistake. GOD DONT MAKE ANY mistakes. If you didn't go THROW anything you can't share with the world. For those that need to hear this story. I was just about to give up on looking for my family. You have given me hope. It's ok. You're wonderful. My children are not adopted...BUT because I don't know where I come from I felt I didn't give them what they need. Please don't cry. I felt I could have been a better mother. BUT I failed. GOD IS so good. So I know what you're going through and I know what my CHILDREN are going through. I'm sitting here balling my eyes out. GOD Bless you and GOD Bless your family.
I didn’t get you was a mistake out of it I got that you were so special that your aunt wanted you, but your mom wanted you and couldn’t sit back and watch you grow up but not be able to have you so she gave you to your family who loved and raised you. So you should look at it like god put so many ppl in your life who really wanted you!!!