I just came across your YouTube channel and I want to let you know that I appreciate you and look up to you for everything that you've been through and being strong! I am 29 also and I remember growing up how hard it was to survive.. I understand where your mom is coming from and I also understand where your Aunt is coming from. Without saying I believe I know why she wanted you as her own. Keep your head up!! You have a beautiful woman by your side and life is becoming a whole.. take it day by day and I look forward to seeing you grow! 💖🙏
Pause wait . Mistake were do I see the word bc I’m tearing up ... u know how many times I felt that way and I’m not adopted I’m such a fan and luv you so much and always will support u and Luv u for who u are u showed me how to be strong god has a plan ❤️😘
This was though loved how real it was stay strong ma dude . That must have been tough feeling all if those things you shouldn't have been feeling, being in a different state of mind , not feeling loved. Wow man this really touched me 💛💛😥
Keep going mystic... i know i was a blessing and a mistake aswell but dont think negative.. be glad and bleased ur alive.. theres no life without pain my friend 🙏 u got this .. u make me laugh and help me keep going after ive had the same thoughts aswell.. keep going my friend and be strong 🙏 cheers bro 😪
You are not a mistake! Things happened beyond your control due to the decisions of other people or just by circumstance. You are in no way at fault for any of it. Life comes with pain. That is unavoidable. Even though there was pain surrounding your situation you are also a source of joy for the parents who raised you AND you are the healing balm to those who share your pain of the past. Don't ever believe you were a mistake who was not supposed to be here. You have brought happiness to a lot of people on youtube and by sharing this story you have probably helped a lot in their sadness as well. Life sucks. It comes with all kinds of things that cut us deeply, but it is so important to look for the things that bring us joy and that is worth all the pain we have to go through. I came across these videos by happenstance, but I am so glad I did. Your story is beautiful and it touched my heart. I know your mom is so glad to have you back in her life. The old emotional scars won't just go away, but they will lessen in time and you will be thankful to have this time. You will heal each others pain. God bless all of you. ❤️
I think you're adopted mom and your real mom are two outstanding individuals who love you dearly and thank God that you have two moms that love you unconditionally that is so rare so you are blessed beyond measure and again thank you for sharing your story you now have another family sister I don't know if you have another brother or not but you have other individuals that you can now Buy on with in spite of what happened in the past so I wish you nothing but the best may God's richest and best be yours forever
I am a new subscriber to your YouTube channel and thank you so much for sharing your story I think you give hope to people who are in your situation and I think you are handling this and such a great way and such a positive way thank you for the love that you continue to show unconditionally in spite of what you've been through and even concerning your real mom thank you for your life story it encourages me. And when I saw the video of you sharing the letter that you received from your real mom or should I say your birth mom I was crying right along with you it touch me so thank you so much for sharing
I can't ever imagine what you are going through. I just wanted to reach out to you. You're not a mistake, but a wonderful blessing that helps others through pain!!! I'm praying for you and your continued healing process. Be blessed man and peace within!!!
Im only 16. I was taken in by my step dad when i was one year old and adopted at the age of 6. I still live with my birth mom because she married my step dad before he adopted me. I have met my biological dad 3 times in my life already. And my oldest brother once. My middle brother i have never met and it hurts me really badly. My dad doesnt want me to talk to my biological dad bc of stuff from the past. I dont really know much of my dads side of my family and it eats at me everyday. So i don’t understand completely but I understand being adopted.
A child is a Blessing from the Lord. Don't say you shouldn't have been born. You are a beautiful, kind young man. A creation from the Lord created in his image. Please realize you are here for a reason. Maybe you could help others. I Love you.
You are not the reason for the decision that your parent's made your birth mom what she had to do. You are loved so much by your mom .you make me cry . I pray that you find a way to heal and let joy take over and take it in one day at a time. The little child in you is hurt .but the man your are is string one day at a time. GOD IS IN CONTROL 😊
Man those feelings I feel everyday you showed me something I wish I had but I know no one is a mistake no one because God has a plan for everyone ik exactly what you are going through ........ your a blessed person
You are strong and you need to realise this soon , and know that most people going threw this would have gave up on them self and said fuck life but you are hanging on to what you got...but you never ask to be born but your here now so realise how FAR you got in life feeling this way and your not dead yet ....Why ...because you know your life is worth more then gold. Trust me I know how you feel and I'm 31 years old and I realised I don't need people to love me I stopped drinking and smoking and I feel happy excepting my path where ever it go's or who I go with don't matter who love you love yourself ....You will understand soon just give it more years it will come to you the worst of it will end soon your still in your twenties your still figuring things out but deep down that self worth will come out like a Alien baby on a movie 😊
We all have a roll and a purpose on this world and a mistake you are not, I understand how you see it like that but those people around you needed to go thru that pain, exc and it’s sad because innocent was in the middle you but everything happens to us for a reason good or bad. Hate, pain, bad things need to happened for other doors to open you my dear are loved by many, keep blessing us with your videos and bringing smiles and laughter to us xoxo ✌️ ❤️
You have A purpose and you have been a great blessing to all you encounter. We're thankful for You. Your family loves you. We love you. You are certainly worthy. None of this is your fault you were the strength to everyone in this situation. Stay strong. And must importantly, please, stay you. Because YOU are Beautiful Soul.
I've felt this way with my absent parent who was there for another child. And I suffered greatly.. But I'm thankful every day for how I turned out... I could've been worse off. -- You turned out perfectly❤
Sir, My comments to you are just my humble opinion.
You are right not to have tried to continue to hide or mask the pain. I can't even begin to tell you what that decision has done for your life. You are at the perfect age to deal with this.
Because, sooner or later, it would have come out and it wouldn't have been pretty so God bless you.
God has blessed you for allowing you, now, to be able to take the steps you took; allowing you to feel what you feel in the best way possible.
Some people, unfortunately, and literally, can't feel deep pain till it explodes. And that might mean in their forties or fifties or beyond.
You are so blessed and thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm sure your story will inspire others. I agree with the comment that you have been and are sooooooo loved from all around.
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT ,IT COULDN'T HAVE BEEN YOUR FAULT.
You're so Strong and i'm so proud of you that you got threw it and you have to know that There was always and There will be always someone how loves you! Never forget this
We all are loved even if our parents don't give us this Love that we need so much...
There is hope in Jesus. God chose you from the very beginning & that is exactly why you exist here on this earth. If you go to God for your closure, He will bring all the healing & freedom that you need & He will show you the great purpose that He has for your life. Your story is your testimony & it’s something that God can use to bring hope to others & show you that you are not a mistake. God bless you 🙏🏻
A baby is a miracle from God. YOU are a miracle from God never think that you are a mistake. You have a purpose on this earth and God will continue to show you your path. Keep pushing and continue to strive. You have those that love and adore you. Just remember you are beautiful.
You gotta think about it this way baby. Even tho you’ve put people through pain (which was out of your control so don’t beat yourself up over it) look at how many people you’ve touched. You’ve made so many people smile and laugh and have given people something to relate to. You were put on this earth for a reason. You are worthy. You matter just as much as everyone else does.
You are supposed to be here King. Everyone loved you so much & they couldn't be with or without you. I hope you realize how fortunate you are to feel all the love of all your 'Mothers'. You are special & great for sharing to help others heal. So proud of you!!!❤
I'm adoptedd I was taken away at 6 Adopted at 7...... It's been a weird life allot of lonely night's feeling different ECT....neway on glad u met your family that was a big step. I met my parents finally again my mom a crack addict still/heroin addict n father passed away 6 years ago from hepC sand a staff infection spread to his lungs from using heroine. Best I found my ☮️ bring the best parent I can be the my children. Literally I've made them my world. There father passed away a lil over a year ago. So now unfortunately there gone experience a similar pain of not having there father. But yeah I feel to Mystic, stay strong life is CRAZY.
U made me cry so much, I felt like im adopted just watching this and feeling the pain u have/been through and I'm really really happy that u got to meet ur bio mother and sadly u couldn't meet ur bio father and that's sad, and I'm glad that u got over the pain, I'm just happy that u finally met them!
Do think of negative now, just positive, u have so many people that loves u and we r here to support u no matter what!
We love u!😭☺☺💗💙🌹
Like if u agree with me!☺💙
I think you handle very good. And I would think everyone wants to no where we came from and I parents.I could not stand not noting who my mom and dad were. That’s our birth wright. I thought you did GREAT BABE. The family seams very nice and wow was your mom not sooooo. HAPPY TO SEE YOU. God bless you both on this new journey.I really did think you did so good sweetheart.🙏🙏❤️❤️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️👏🏼
Oh good grief boy u main me sad at 12am on a friday. My biological uncle was supposed to adopt me too but they went to court and idk what happened😕 My situation kind of similar to urs actually...except my uncle and aunts didnt even have a chance. Its sad to know what could have been. I am so torn over this. I just found all this out 1 month ago. I still love my family...the fam that raised me. One day at a time I guess😯😕
My mom was adopted, but didn't find out until she was in her 30s. Her adoption was going to be taken to the grave, but liquid courage revealed the "secret". Seeing you teary eyed and as someone who has been adopted, kind of helps me understand why my mom has some moments where she'll says she feels abadoned and disliked by her children or other people. I didn't understand why she felt that way before, but seeing your video helps me understand what someone who's been adopted feels like. Thank you for sharing this!! You're not a mistake, you're high- larious and no one can tell you otherwise.
I'm not adopted, but you are meant to be here. You are not a mistake. Do you know how many people you may have uplifted and made them feel like someone understands what it's like to be someone who is adopted and the emotions they deal with. You give them hope. So you are meant to be here.
Watching your adoption videos made me think, why the fuck people want to have children where there are so many children out there waiting to be adopted? It's like saying dont adopt a dog from a shelter go buy dogs which is really INSANE. People that wanna have kids should prioritize adoption, letting their egos that would end up destroying "their" kids aside and helping some kids that got left from their moms. Is it so hard to let your ego, let your "but i wanna see my better self/ the self that i would wanna be" on a complete other person and go adopt? Why are we perceiving adoption of a stray dog the correct thing to do but when it comes to our kids we wanna "create" OUR own?
Im a adopted child too and found out the truth about my adoption and birth mother and things I wished I never knew . Made me have a lot of hate towards my birth mother and many feelings of worthless and abandonment and much more , I have always hated my self and suffer from depression and anxiety on a daily basis. I love my real family that adopted me but I have so much hate for my birth mother and the things that were done to me and happened to me when I was a baby .
Yournnot a mistake. I swear we are the same ! I feeel youuuu!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m adopted and I always felt like I was a mistake, ugh poor baby I completely understand keep your head up . lol at this we are here for a REASON ! we are special ! Adopted kids are special !!
It takes a man to admit what you have admitted. It's okay. You have gone through the worst of it. Now, where do you go from here? You can't live in the past any longer. Everything has been brought to the light. The relationships you had were what men do. either through what you have been through, divorce breakups. Because they are afraid of abandonment. You are now a father. You make sure you do not repeat what was told to you by your aunt and your mother. Stay the man you are. Even if you can't see yourself married as of now, make sure your son knows you are there one hundred percent. Your "real parents" THEY made sure you have the chance to be whatever you may focus. You are not a selfish man but a cautious man. You are guarding your heart, even with your birth mother. it's okay. EVERYONE OF THEM LOVE YOU. including your SISTERS. You, know there's this blues song title "You Got To Hurt before you Heal". it's so true to the lyrics. Nothing is your fault. You were conceived for a purpose. Your mother and father "Biological" were the tools to get you here. Now ask the father where do you have me to go from here.💕💕👀💕👍💖
You have a purpose here in this world. Don't ever believe you were a mistake. Both families love you unconditionally, you are blessed my brother. Stay strong. Whatever time you have left with your birth mother enjoy it to the fullest. Much love and support and respect from Texas
Your not ever a mistake. Look at all you’ve done for so many of us. Your are strong, brave, smart, talented. It will help with time. It will get better. We are here to help you as much as you’ve helped us. Thank your for sharing your story and your issues your going through.